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AretéaLeadership starts with you.

Leadership coaching for first-time women managers

Your first leadership role is a transition — not just a promotion.

You know how to do your job. Now you're expected to lead people, make difficult decisions, set boundaries and earn respect — sometimes without much guidance on how.

Whether you're preparing for your first leadership role or have recently stepped into management, I'll help you build the confidence, authority and skills to lead in your own way.

From being good at your job to becoming confident in leading others.

Olga Naert in a cream blazer, smiling
01The transition

You have the title. Now the work changes.

Before

Your success depended on your own work.

Now

It depends on how well you lead others.

Your first months as a manager shape how you lead for years. The skills are learnable — and so is the internal shift underneath them.

02Is this you?

Is this you?

  • You're a new manager.

  • You're leading former peers.

  • You're taking on leadership responsibilities without the title.

  • You're finding it difficult to let go of doing everything yourself.

  • You're ready to lead with more confidence but still feel the need to prove yourself.

Does this sound familiar?

  • The role has changed. But nobody taught you how to make the transition.

  • I know what needs to be done. But when I step in to help, I end up doing the work myself.

  • I want my team to take ownership. But when things aren't moving, I struggle not to take control.

  • I need to be clear about expectations. But I worry people will think I'm bossy.

  • I want to be approachable. But sometimes my team treats me like a colleague rather than their manager.

  • I know my subject inside out. But when someone challenges me, I second-guess myself.

  • I'm expected to know what I'm doing, yet the guidance and mentorship I need aren't always there.

  • I keep proving my value instead of trusting the experience I already bring.

  • I hold everything together at work and go home exhausted from trying to get everything right.

These are all struggles one woman shared in a single coaching conversation.

You might recognise yourself in one, several or every single one.

That's not a sign you're a bad leader. It means you're navigating a transition that requires new skills and behaviours.

Already taking on more responsibility?

You may be leading projects, coordinating colleagues or taking ownership beyond your formal role. You don't have to wait for a promotion to start developing your leadership skills.

03The approach

The patterns that made you successful so far might be standing in the way of your success further on.

The drive to prove yourself. The instinct to fix everything. The need to keep everyone happy. The habit of staying quiet when you have something important to say.

These patterns may have helped you build your career. But leadership asks something different of you.

At Aretéa, we connect practical leadership development with deeper self-awareness. Together, we explore what prevents you from doing what you already know you need to do — and practise new ways of responding.

We work on the situations that matter in your role:

  • 01

    Delegation and accountability

  • 02

    Boundaries and assertive communication

  • 03

    Feedback and difficult conversations

  • 04

    Leading former peers

  • 05

    Managing upwards and speaking with confidence

  • 06

    Recognising your patterns under pressure

The goal isn't to become someone else. It's to understand yourself, strengthen your leadership skills and have more choice in how you respond.

Because knowing how to lead isn't the same as being able to do it when the pressure is on.

Explore the Patterns
04The programme

From Peer to Leader

A four-month individual coaching programme for women stepping into leadership.

Build the practical skills and inner confidence to move from being a strong individual contributor to leading others with clarity, authority and intention.

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05What you get
  1. 01

    Eight individual coaching sessions

    Eight 90-minute sessions over four months, held online via Google Meet. Bring your real leadership challenges and work through them with personalised support.

  2. 02

    Leadership Strengths & Patterns Assessment

    Understand the strengths you bring to leadership and the patterns that may get in your way under pressure.

  3. 03

    Focused learning materials

    Short, practical videos and learning resources to help you apply what you learn between sessions.

  4. 04

    Your personal leadership toolkit

    Practical approaches to delegation, feedback, difficult conversations, clear communication and managing upwards.

  5. 05

    WhatsApp support between sessions

    Monday to Friday for questions and reflections, with a target response time of one business day.

  6. 06

    Your personal 90-day leadership plan

    Finish with a clear plan to put your learning into practice and continue developing as a leader.

06Investment & guarantee

Investment

€2,000 + VAT

Four months of individual coaching and practical leadership development. Two equal instalments are available.

30-day money-back guarantee

Start with peace of mind.

If the programme isn’t right for you, you can request a refund within the first 30 days, The value of sessions already completed will be deducted proportionally.

Start with a free 45-minute conversation.

Book Your Free 45-Minute Leadership Conversation
07Your outcome

Your outcome

  • 1

    How you feel

    • Feel calmer under pressure.
    • Handle criticism without questioning your worth.
    • Feel less guilty when you set boundaries.
  • 2

    How you think

    • Trust your judgement without knowing everything.
    • Stop confusing being liked with being a good leader.
    • Recognise patterns that drive your decisions.
  • 3

    How you act

    • Become assertive without being aggressive.
    • Set boundaries without becoming cold or defensive.
    • Address difficult situations directly instead of avoiding them.
  • 4

    How your team experiences you

    • Be warm and approachable, yet respected.
    • Set clear expectations and build accountability.
    • Support your team without micromanaging.
  • 5

    Your leadership identity

    • Shift from expert to leader.
    • Own your authority without proving yourself.
    • Lead in a way that feels authentic.
  • 6

    Your relationships

    • Lead former peers with clear boundaries.
    • Speak up with senior colleagues.
    • Care about others without carrying their responsibilities.
08Client reflections

What clients say about working with Olga

These reflections come from clients' coaching experiences. They illustrate the personal growth and self-awareness that coaching can support; they are not presented as testimonials from participants in From Peer to Leader.

  • 01 · Confidence

    Off autopilot

    “I think the biggest shift has been in how much more confident I feel, especially since I started these coaching sessions in the first six months of a new job. It gave me a space to pause, reflect, and bring real challenges I was facing as they came up. That made such a difference. As someone who’s always been into personal development, I’ve never felt this in touch with myself or this intentional about how I move. I’m not on autopilot anymore and that’s been huge for me.”

    — Ruva

  • 02 · Patterns

    A new pattern

    “I know myself better I change the old pattern and create a new pattern. Old pattern. Fear of being judged. New Pattern = To be Authentic and not worry about telling what achievements I have done.”

    — Aisiri

  • 03 · The experience

    Structured and personal

    “I'd say go for it and enjoy the ride. If you are looking for a space that is structured but also personal, and working with someone who is genuinely invested in your growth, this is it. The space Olga creates is supportive but also focused, which really helps you reflect and move forward.”

    — Sara

  • 04 · Assertiveness

    Learning to speak up

    “To own my speech and being assertive is not to be rude.”

    — Anna

  • 05 · Confidence

    From pressure to confidence

    “I have 100% become calmer and more confident. The race for results has disappeared, now I do not scatter my attention on everything, but clearly take actions in my specific direction. Before starting something, I filter out the activities I need and do not need.”

    — Mariam

  • 06 · Clarity and action

    From scattered thoughts to a plan

    “How you could sort through all my scattered thoughts and pick out the actual problem from a set of mumbles - and I actually can get an action plan that will solve the chaos. You gave me hope and confidence.”

    — Megan

09Questions & answers

Questions you might have

10Next step

Ready to lead differently?

If you're navigating your first management role — or preparing for one — let's start with a conversation.

Book Your Free 45-Minute Leadership Conversation